Handling a Calendar Conflict Between Two Board Committee Chairs

Confirm the authority of each chair

A calendar conflict between two committee chairs is not only a scheduling problem. Each chair may have the authority to call a meeting. The authority may cover different topics or different quorum rules. Confirm what each meeting is for and who can move it before offering a solution.

Ask each chair whether the meeting can be rescheduled, shortened, or represented by a delegate. Do not assume that one meeting is more important because the chair is more senior. The board's bylaws or calendar policy may set the priority. Record the evidence and the next owner before the packet leaves the office. Keep the note usable by the next reviewer.

Record the authority and the constraint for each request. The note should let the executive assistant explain why a meeting was moved without relying on a personal judgment about the chairs. Record the evidence and the next owner before the packet leaves the office. Keep the note usable by the next reviewer.

The assistant should confirm whether each chair can delegate attendance. A chair who cannot attend may send a committee member. The delegate may not have the authority to vote. The calendar note should show the delegate and the limit.

Separate a conflict from a preference

A true conflict is two meetings that cannot both be attended at the scheduled times. A preference is a chair who would like a different time but can attend the current one. The assistant should clarify which situation applies before changing the calendar. Record the evidence and the next owner before the packet leaves the office. Keep the note usable by the next reviewer.

If the conflict is a preference, offer the current time and ask whether the chair wants an alternative. If the conflict is real, gather the options and the consequences before proposing a change. The distinction prevents unnecessary rescheduling. Record the evidence and the next owner before the packet leaves the office. Keep the note usable by the next reviewer.

Do not use a tentative hold to avoid the conversation. A hold that blocks time without an owner can create a second conflict. The calendar should show the real state, not a guess about what might happen. Record the evidence and the next owner before the packet leaves the office. Keep the note usable by the next reviewer.

A conflict may be resolved by shortening one meeting rather than moving it. Ask each chair whether a shorter agenda is acceptable. A one-hour meeting that keeps the quorum may be better than a move that loses a key participant. Record the evidence and the next owner before the packet leaves the office. Keep the note usable by the next reviewer.

Offer options that preserve both commitments

Offer at least two options: one that moves the smaller meeting and one that moves the larger meeting. Include the effect on quorum, preparation. The other attendees Record the evidence and the next owner before the packet leaves the office. Keep the note usable by the next reviewer.

If neither meeting can move, propose a short joint session or a delegate arrangement if the board's rules allow it. Do not invent a compromise that the bylaws do not permit. The assistant can suggest. The chairs or the board secretary decide.

Record the option that was chosen and the reason. A later conflict with the same chairs can start from that precedent. The record also protects the assistant if one chair later disputes the change. Record the evidence and the next owner before the packet leaves the office. Keep the note usable by the next reviewer.

If the conflict involves a board packet deadline, the options should include the packet's review time. A meeting that moves earlier may not give the board enough time to read. The assistant should show that constraint to the chairs. Record the evidence and the next owner before the packet leaves the office. Keep the note usable by the next reviewer.

Record the decision and the owner

After the decision, update both calendars and send a short note to the attendees. The note should say what changed, what did not, and who approved the change. A calendar update without a message leaves people to discover the change on their own. Record the evidence and the next owner before the packet leaves the office. Keep the note usable by the next reviewer.

Name the owner of any follow-up, such as a revised agenda or a new quorum check. A decision that is recorded but not owned tends to reopen. The assistant can coordinate the follow-up without becoming the decision-maker. Record the evidence and the next owner before the packet leaves the office. Keep the note usable by the next reviewer.

If the conflict affects a board packet deadline, tell the packet owner. The calendar change may require a different review schedule. The [board packet version register](/blog/building-a-board-packet-version-register-for-the-executive-office/) can help keep the packet aligned with the new meeting. Record the evidence and the next owner before the packet leaves the office. Keep the note usable by the next reviewer.

The decision note should say who approved the change and who was informed. A chair who was not consulted may later object. The note should distinguish approval from notification. Record the evidence and the next owner before the packet leaves the office. Keep the note usable by the next reviewer.

Review recurring conflicts

If the same two committees conflict repeatedly, the calendar itself may need a change. Review the pattern over a quarter and propose a standing rule, such as staggered start times or a shared preparation block. The rule should be approved by the board secretary or the chairs. Record the evidence and the next owner before the packet leaves the office. Keep the note usable by the next reviewer.

Do not solve a recurring conflict with a permanent exception for one chair. That approach hides the problem and creates resentment. A transparent rule is easier to apply and easier to explain. Record the evidence and the next owner before the packet leaves the office. Keep the note usable by the next reviewer.

Keep a short record of the conflicts and the resolutions. The [calendar conflict research](/research/how-complete-are-calendar-conflict-records-for-board-committees/) describes how to review the records without judging the chairs. Record the evidence and the next owner before the packet leaves the office. Keep the note usable by the next reviewer.

A recurring conflict may be a sign that the committee calendar is too dense. The board secretary can review the pattern and propose a standing fix. The assistant's record is the evidence for that conversation. Record the evidence and the next owner before the packet leaves the office. Keep the note usable by the next reviewer.

The assistant should record the time zone for each meeting, especially when one chair is traveling. A conflict that looks like an hour may be a different hour in another zone. The calendar note should show the zone. Record the evidence and the next owner before the packet leaves the office. Keep the note usable by the next reviewer.

If the conflict cannot be resolved, the record should say who accepted the risk. A meeting without a quorum is a decision, not an accident. The note should name the person who chose to proceed or cancel. Record the evidence and the next owner before the packet leaves the office. Keep the note usable by the next reviewer.

The assistant should confirm the meeting location as well as the time. Two committees may be in different rooms. A move can create a room conflict Record the evidence and the next owner before the packet leaves the office. Keep the note usable by the next reviewer.

The record should also show whether the change was communicated to the board secretary. The secretary may need to update the packet or the minutes. That notification is part of the resolution. Record the evidence and the next owner before the packet leaves the office. Keep the note usable by the next reviewer.

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